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A lap dance is simply an erotic dance performed in the form of sexual moves to arouse the partner. We’ve talked of many ways of improving bland sex life, but we don’t give lap dances the credit they deserve. To flawlessly execute one, you don’t necessarily need to be a professional dancer. No rules dictate how it should be done or what moves to make, but we’ve prepared the following tips to help you make your way around it. Here are tips for giving a hot lap dance.
1. Find some inspiration
If you don’t know where to start, we have loads of content on the internet that will give you an idea. Check out Instagram, YouTube and tiktok for videos of expert dancers doing what they do best. However, remember these are professional dances, so you don’t have to copy exactly what they do. The point is to get an idea of a starting point.
2. Choose your music.
When it comes to lap dancing, music is everything. We suggest you choose a deeply romantic or erotic song that probably your partner likes and will put the two of you into an erotic headspace. A song like Usher’s “Climax” is a perfect example.
3. Dressing is everything
While the idea of a lap dance is erotic, and the first thing that comes to your mind is to wear something erotic and seductive, that is not always the case. We recommend you find something that your partner finds sexy and one that you feel comfortable in. We also recommend two-piece outfits, such as a t-shirt and a short skirt, as they give you more options for striping if that is part of the dance.
4. Choose a seat with armrests
The armrests will act as a handle for you to hold on to as you grind on him, making things easier and more comfortable.
5. Set an erotic mood
Creating an erotic mood before the dance comes a long way to completing the moment. If possible, get some lit candles, but make sure that the room isn’t too dark for your partner not to see. The idea is to show a silhouette.
6. Could you not make it too long?
Ideally, a lap dance shouldn’t take too long. Two songs should be enough, as it is just a stepping stone to more erotic moments. Make it short, but again, not too short.
The bottom line
You don’t need to attend dance classes to drive them crazy. Allow yourself to be creative. Read blogs and watch videos for more inspiration. Lastly is to remind you not to do what your body can’t handle.
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