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We always talk about sex, but we don't get to speak on how to do it. While there's no standard to good or bad sex, we all get those moments when we feel like whatever is happening in the bedroom isn't bearing any fruit. This is mainly for couples in serious and long-term relationships. If you're one of them, here are some signs that you could be having awkward sex, and you could soon need a therapist.
When Sex Feels Like a Chore
Whenever something feels like work, it's because, mentally, you've made it into one. When you hit this point, you need to ask yourself whether you feel this way because sex is expected from you or because of what you expect from your partner.
People make sex look like an event, and every time, the persons involved are pleasured to their needs. What they
don't
understand is that there's much more that goes into sex, including communication and intentionality. When these building blocks are lacking, sex certainly feels like a chore.
When It Becomes Imbalanced.
Sex isn't a one-sided adventure. If it feels like one person is doing more than the other, then something is seriously wrong. When you're always giving or always receiving, it's time to sit down and talk.
When One Person Is Always Initiating
Sex initiation plays a crucial factor in the end game. For the partner initiating, they need to ask themselves how being the initiator makes them feel about their partner and why. Also, for the person who doesn't initiate, they need to ask themselves why they don't feel the urge to start things.
Allowing yourself the space to give honest insights on this will make it easier to understand where the problem is and how to solve it.
When It's All About Penetration
Sex has a different meaning to everyone. However, Darwin escorts like to define it as a meaningful and deep experience of pleasure with a partner. That said, sex involves much more than just penetration. There's the part of communication, foreplay, penetration, and, of course, orgasm.
When you find yourself and your partner struggling with other factors, such as foreplay, then something is indeed amiss. Start by sitting down and discussing what sex is to you, and from there, you can branch out to what you think will be helpful.
When It Becomes Monotonous
Sex should be adventurous. When you and your partner do the same things over and over again, it's time to rethink. While we discourage monotony, remember it's still sex, and so it's a good starting point to improve.
In Closing
There are more indicators of bad sex, but our picks are the most common. Identifying issues with your partner isn't rocket science. As long as you two keep in close communication, you'll be able to point out issues from afar!
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