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Cunnilingus, commonly known as oral sex or going down on her, has had an undeserved reputation for being tricky, partly because it’s true and partly because of the judgement that the female anatomy is complicated. Recent studies have shown that very few women get an orgasm from penetrative sex, necessitating more creativity in the bedroom, and cunnilingus is undoubtedly one of them.
While there's no one-size-fits-all approach to sex, our experts have put together a few tips and tricks to give you a refresher course on eating her out. Let’s dive right into it.
Put Her into Ease.
Sadly, many women aren’t very comfortable with receiving oral sex. For some women, it could be due to insecurities such as vagina taste or smell or simply the belief that the female anatomy isn’t too pleasing to look at.
So, if you give her a pep talk to make her feel comfortable with you doing it, it will work the magic.
Start Slow.
Don't be in any sort of rush. Remember, you have the whole day, so don't start with the obvious. How about some soft kisses, focusing on the other non-genital areas as you work your way down there? Remember, the clitoris is extremely sensitive, so applying sudden pressure
don't
the best of ways. Take your time!
Increase Your Speed If Need Be
The key to a good oral sex session is paying attention to body language. Once you've gained some momentum, or they indicate that they need more, slowly ramp up the speed and pressure. If possible, also increase the rhythm.
Be Keen on Your Tongue Movements
With oral sex, tongue movement is the hack to the puzzle. Firstly, we recommend slow and sensual tongue movements before going all in with the aggressive strokes. Find a consistent tongue pattern and stick to it as she soars to heights of pleasure.
For most women, consistency indeed feels good. Constantly switching between patterns will take them off the course of the orgasm. However, using one pattern several times will be boring and stale. So, have several patterns in your pleasure arsenal.
Add Some Dirty Talk
This is especially true for partners who might be feeling vulnerable. Feel free to assure them that they taste great and that you are enjoying the ride. Tell them how turned on you are, and say it straight to their face, with some eye contact.
Use Your Hands, Too.
As everything picks up pace, adding more arsenal will greatly help. As she gets wetter, insert a finger or two into the vaginal opening, and slide it in and out as you gain pace, depending on feedback. Curving your finger while stroking will surely heighten things.
Don't
Just Focus on The Clitoris
While the clitoris is the most sensitive part, it would be much sexier if you also showed some love to other parts of the anatomy. Give the vulva some tongue strokes, too, keeping in mind to maintain rhythm.
Lastly, enjoy the ride. D
on't
just go down on your partner so that they can orgasm. That way, it feels like a job and won't always bear results. Instead, focus on the moment and think about how going down on her turns you on.
Do you think cunnilingus is the hottest form of foreplay? Do you have any experience with it? Leave your comment in the section below.
Comment from Samantha Augustin
There is nothing like being a female and pleasuring another female to orgasm 😁
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