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Orgasms! The unicorn of sex- a beautiful and magical feeling. If you’ve not had any, you must have heard of a blended orgasm, commonly known as a simultaneous orgasm. People with vaginas and clitoris are seriously blessed. If having a vaginal orgasm is usually bliss, imagine having two. Vaginal orgasms are the most common, but you can also have clitoral orgasms, and yes, at the same time. This article is an easy-to-understand guide on blended orgasms and how to have them. Excited? Well, so are we!
What Are They?
A blended orgasm can be defined as a vaginal and clitoral orgasm that happens at the same time. So, typically, two simultaneous orgasms, that tend to give a more intense body response in terms of pleasure.
To understand blended orgasms better, let's dig deeper into how clitoral and vaginal orgasms work.
Clitoral orgasms occur when sensual and repetitive pressure is applied to a wet clitoris. Remember, the clitoris is filled with thousands of nerves, making it a super sensitive region. The wetness can be achieved naturally or using lubes.
Vaginal orgasms result from stimulating the G-spot, a sensitive region deep inside the vagina.
How Does a Blended Orgasm Feel?
One word- Simply ah-mazing!
Although each orgasm may feel different, combining the two may trigger anything from female ejaculation to involuntary movements that seem like convulsions.
It's important to note that orgasms feel different to everyone, and bodies react differently. Therefore, we highly discourage having sex with this end goal in mind. However, if you feel comfortable with your partner, you can discuss it, and here are some tips to achieve a blended orgasm.
Here’s How To Achieve A Blended Orgasm
Understand Your Anatomy.
The female anatomy differs across all women. Therefore, what might work for you might not work for someone else. We recommend taking time to understand your female anatomy, such as how your clitoris is, where your G-spot is located or what easily turns you on. Once you have that in mind, you'll be easier to please, which shortens the road to your big O.
PS! Fingers are a great way of exploring yourself and knowing what works for you.
Master Multitasking
If you're trying to achieve a blended orgasm, you must learn how to multi-task. Remember you're trying to please both the vagina and the clitoris, which, if you're not used to, might not feel natural at first.
Luckily, there are a couple of ways to achieve this, either by combining fingers, a partner or even a sex toy. Any method you pick here will surely get you there.
Communicate
If you're doing this with a partner, you must be in sync. Ask each other questions and listen to feedback. If you feel one part needs more attention than the other, don’t be afraid to speak up.
Consistency Is Key
Stimulating two parts of the body doesn’t mean you must go half as hard on each. Bringing yourself or your partner to a blended orgasm requires focus and determination. For example, the clitoris needs consistent stimulation and the right amount of pressure to reach the pleasure threshold.
Add Some Toys and Lube
Lube will help you keep everything wet and smooth, which increases arousal.
Toys are also a great addition as they provide that extra external and internal stimulation that will be crucial to get you or your partner there. Rabbit vibrators will be a great fit.
Finally
A blended orgasm will be a game changer to your sexual encounters. The above tips should be helpful.
A kind reminder that sexual pleasure is just as much of a mental game as it is a physical one. Therefore, don’t break your back trying to get a blended orgasm. It is just an addition to a great sex life. So, breathe, stay calm and enjoy the ride!
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