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Pleasure and pain during sex collide so beautifully. They complement each other flawlessly if done well and with a load of care. From roleplays to sex toys and domination, several sexual kinks entail pleasurable pain, but the least talked about is erotic spanking.
Simply put, erotic spanking is a type of play where a partner uses their hands, whip, flog or paddle to spank parts of the partner's body gently and consensually. It can be used as foreplay before a sexual encounter or even as a kink during domination sexual plays. Spanks have an exciting power dynamic that gives them the pleasure tag during sex. Here are a few tips and tricks for erotic spanking.
Discuss Boundaries
Boundaries are among the toughest topics between intimate partners. If at all you care about each other, you must be ready to have difficult conversations to ensure no one gets hurt. Before going all in, have an open and honest conversation if this is something you’d like in your romantic encounters.
Choose a Memorable Safe Word.
Safe words are essential in domination sex plays since they ensure the partner's safety regarding limits. Remember, different people respond differently to spanking, and while some may find it pleasurable, some will not take it beyond a few spanks. Choosing a memorable, safe word will be vital in passing this stage of open communication such that when one partner needs the play to stop or take a pause, they can use the word.
Be Mindful Of Where You Spank.
While this sounds interesting, there are some parts you don’t want to spank, especially if you’re just getting started. We recommend sticking to the butt and upper thighs and advancing as you get used to it. The butt has more flesh, which is safe even for a beginner.
We recommend going slow and focusing on different regions of the buttocks and thighs. Don’t focus too much on one area of the butt or thighs.
Invest In Spanking Tools.
While using your hands will do the job, it doesn’t hurt to go the extra mile. There are several tools you can use for spanking, and they are readily available in adult shops and websites. Good examples include floggers, whips, canes, gloves, and blindfolds. If you don’t have these, you can always get creative with a belt, as long as you remember to listen to feedback and safe words. There is no limitation to creativity with tools. So, be as wild as you can!
Use Spanking In Foreplay And Roleplay!
Spanking makes a great addition to foreplay and roleplay. It brings extra heightened senses of fantasy, especially to role plays. A teacher/student scenario works perfectly with spanking.
In Closing
The key to enjoying erotic spanking is communication, going slow, paying attention and, quite significantly, aftercare. Incorporating more sensations like temperature play with spanking will improve things. All in all, the above tips should be a great start.
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