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The topic of anal sex is always met with many questions and discussions. While that is fair, many people don’t know that anal sex can be one of the most pleasurable forms of sex. Anal sex can be done by people of all gender orientations with either the real thing or strap-ons. For beginners, it might be a bit harder to manoeuvre around this hurdle, and in most cases, it is an unpleasant and painful experience. Whether experienced or not, you deserve some good and fun anal play. Here is a round-up of tips and tricks to make anal sex painless.
1 . Warm It Up
The best sex happens when both parties are fully psychologically prepared. This is why we recommend building up the sexual tension to make both parties aroused. When aroused, they get more open-minded, excited and ready for new experiences, ensuring the anal penetration isn’t painful.
2. Lube It Up!!
We can never insist enough on this. Anal sex isn’t the same as vaginal sex. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so we advocate for lubrication. There are various brands of lubes available in adult shops that you can use. We have oil-based, silicon-based and water-based lubricants as the main categories. We recommend water-based lubricants since they mix well with latex condoms. Escorts Brisbane advise against using oil-based lubricants or household oils such as olive and coconut oil since they aren’t compatible with latex.
3. Take It Easy
Everything starts with warming the backdoor. Once you're mentally prepared and lubricated enough, it’s time to make your way in. This door is pretty small, but it can accommodate everyone. We recommend starting with one finger (Well lubricated) as you add up to more fingers. If the partner is comfortable, you can use a sex toy such as a small butt plug for first-timers. Again, remember to lubricate the butt plug. Keep adding up in size until your partner is ready for the big moment. Remember, well-lubricated and slow is the way to go.
4. Positions Do Matter!
The mention of the word anal probably evokes doggy style in your mind. The truth is, while it’s a perfect sex style for anal sex, there are more and even better sex styles that you can use. Believe it or not, missionary is a perfect position for anal sex. It is highly ergonomic and also allows tons of skin and eye contact.
Final Thoughts
Ideally, anal sex isn’t complicated as long as you and your partner are on the same page. A side note worth exploring is checking in often on what your partner is feeling. If the face is all green, please proceed. If they give you a red sign, respect them and stop!
Have you ever had anal sex? What’s your experience? Please tell us through the blog comment section.
Comment from user92426
I had my virgin ass done when I was still at school and working during school holidays. The supervisor who did me was a tall man in his 30's, he tried in the office then he said better I come to his hose his wife was away for the week end.. In his house he could do me step by step with much lube starting with his fingers and gradual. He took nearly the full day to be able to shove his big banana shape penis in my ass. Patience is necessary in anal sex.
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